THEME |
SAMPLE BEHAVIOR |
SAMPLE TINY GOAL |
Emotional Regulation |
3-minute deep breathing |
I want to build the habit of pausing for 3 minutes of deep breathing to avoid feeling overwhelmed and regain clarity throughout my day. |
Grounding |
Sensory walk |
I deeply care about taking short sensory walks because it aligns with my value of being present—and I want to become someone who listens to my body. |
Energy Recovery |
10-minute reset break |
I want to build the habit of taking 10-minute breaks to avoid burnout and stay energized for the people and work I care about. |
Support Seeking |
Text a friend |
I want to text a friend when I feel off, because people around me value connection, and it fits naturally into my day when I’m feeling low. |
Micro-Routines |
Morning mantra |
I deeply care about saying a morning mantra because it aligns with my value of intentional living—and I want to become someone who starts the day grounded. |
Flexible Thinking |
Reframe one challenge daily as an opportunity to learn or grow. |
I deeply care about reframing challenges because it aligns with my values of curiosity and growth—and I want to become someone who sees possibility even in hardship. |
Learning Agility |
Watch/read one short video/article outside my usual interests each week. |
I want to build the habit of consuming new ideas to avoid mental stagnation and gain fresh insights that help me grow personally and professionally. |
Resilience Journaling |
Journal 3 “micro-wins” at the end of each day, especially during transitions. |
I want to build the habit of journaling my small wins because people around me value reflection and gratitude, and it fits naturally into my quiet evening routine. |
Routine Experimentation |
Change one part of my routine weekly to build cognitive flexibility. |
I deeply care about experimenting with my routine because it aligns with my values of flexibility and lifelong learning—and I want to become someone who adapts with ease. |
Crisis Readiness |
Review my personal or team backup plan once a month. |
I want to review my backup plan monthly to avoid being caught off guard and to gain peace of mind knowing I’m prepared. |
Environment Shaping |
Declutter my workspace at the end of each day. |
I want to build the habit of clearing my desk daily to avoid feeling mentally cluttered and to gain a sense of calm focus for tomorrow. |
Trigger Awareness |
Track one stress trigger and create a simple mitigation strategy. |
I deeply care about tracking my stress triggers because it helps me become someone who responds with awareness, not reactivity. |
Assertive Communication |
Notice a negative thought to reframe self-talk. |
I want to reframe my self-talk to avoid self-doubt and gain confidence in how I show up for myself and others. |
Digital Boundaries |
Turn off notifications during focused work blocks. |
I want to silence my notifications during focused time because people around me value presence and it fits my workflow when I need to get things done. |
Personal Space |
Create a small sanctuary corner at home that restores my peace. |
I deeply care about having a peaceful space because it aligns with my value of inner calm and supports who I want to become—centered and grounded. |
Media Diet |
Set a 20-minute time block to disconnect from news and social media. |
I want to limit my media intake to avoid emotional fatigue and gain back mental clarity for things that matter. |
Self-Kindness |
Write a compassionate letter to myself on hard days. |
I deeply care about writing to myself with kindness because it aligns with my value of self-compassion and helps me become more emotionally resilient. |
🔹 C – Coping Capacity: Regulate stress, recharge, and remain grounded.
THEME |
BEHAVIOR |
PROMPT |
CELEBRATION |
Emotional Regulation |
3-minute deep breathing |
After I close my laptop for lunch. |
I'll put my hand on my heart and say “I’ve got this.” |
Grounding |
Sensory walk |
After finishing a call or class |
I'll say “I’m back in my body!” with a smile. |
Energy Recovery |
10-minute reset break |
When I refill my glass with water or coffee |
I'll stretch my arms wide and say “Yes, I chose rest!” |
Support Seeking |
Text a friend |
After my first negative thought of the day |
I'll take a deep breath and say “Connection over isolation.” |
Micro-Routines |
Morning mantra |
After brushing my teeth |
I'll snap my fingers and say “Today is mine.” |
🔹 A – Adaptability: Embrace change, stretch perspectives, stay curious.
THEME |
BEHAVIOR |
PROMPT |
CELEBRATION |
Flexible Thinking |
Reframe one challenge daily as an opportunity to learn or grow. |
When I catch myself complaining |
I'll say “Challenge = growth!” while tapping my chest. |
Learning Agility |
Watch/read one short video/article outside my usual interests each week. |
After my last work task of the day |
I'll say “I expanded today!” and fist-pump. |
Resilience Journaling |
Journal 3 “micro-wins” at the end of each day, especially during transitions. |
Right before bed |
Whisper “Yes, I’m making progress.” with a small smile. |
Routine Experimentation |
Change one part of my routine weekly to build cognitive flexibility. |
Sunday night planning |
Play a fun sound effect or song snippet. |
Crisis Readiness |
Review my personal or team backup plan once a month. |
1st of each month |
Do a “yes” nod and say “I’m ready |
THEME |
BEHAVIOR |
PROMPT |
CELEBRATION |
Cognitive Defusion |
Notice a negative thought to reframe self-talk. |
After a stressful email or message |
Smile and say “I’m the observer, not the storm.” |
Realistic Optimism |
List one challenge I’ve overcome for every current worry. |
After finishing a call or class |
Say “I’m back in my body!” with a smile. |
Boundaries |
5-minute break before I can reengage when emotions rise. |
During tension with someone |
Say “That’s growth right there.” quietly to yourself. |
Media Diet |
Set a 20-minute time block to disconnect from news and social media. |
After checking social media once |
Say “I choose peace.” while turning off your phone. |
Self-Kindness |
Write a compassionate letter to myself on hard days. |
After a tough day |
Close the letter and say “I am worth this care.” |
🔹 E – Exposure Control: Shape environments and boundaries that restore your energy.
THEME |
BEHAVIOR |
PROMPT |
CELEBRATION |
Environment Shaping |
Declutter my workspace at the end of each day. |
When I catch myself complaining |
Say “Clear space, clear mind.” while clapping. |
Trigger Awareness |
Track one stress trigger and create a simple mitigation strategy. |
After my second yawn or tension moment |
Take a breath and say “I caught it!” |
Assertive Communication |
Practice saying “No, thank you” without apology once a week. |
When asked for something I can’t take on |
Smile and whisper “Strong and soft.” |
Digital Boundaries |
Turn off notifications during focused work blocks. |
Before a focused task |
Tap my phone and say “My focus is my power.” |
Personal Space |
Create a small sanctuary corner at home that restores my peace. |
After making my bed or coffee |
Sit in my space and say “This is my calm.” |